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warning: cursing, mentions of SA, and a bad home life
I am fucking fuming. I have a girlfriend who doesn't have a good home life, and about 10 minutes ago she calls me balling her eyes out because not only is some asshole family "friend" living in her house telling her parents that they should beat her and her siblings but her parents have also been calling her a disappointment, and i am the most pissed off because I can't do anything to help her. She lives in another city so I can't go and take her away from that house. And its not like her so called friends are even helping with them just telling her to stand up for herself which if she does could get her hurt or them just flat out telling her that her parents wouldn't hit her because her parents are white and white parents don't do that. She told me that she would rather be SA at school than be in her home environment. The worst thing is if I were to call the cops they wouldn't do anything because I 1) live in another city and 2) her family from the outside looks normal like her parents would never hurt their kids. and as her boyfriend all I can do I say "wait it out a little longer till you can move out"? Or reassure her that I love her and that I'm on her side. I don't want her to just wait and be in that environment for any longer, i want her to be safe, I want to be able to make her feel loved. and I know I can do that by telling her I love her but if I can't take her out or buy her gifts how will she know that I truly love her. and I can't tell my parents "hey can my girlfriend stay with us" because we are keeping our relationship secret.
I apologize for this I just need to vent to someone, anyone, about this and i don't have a therapist and my friends are asleep right now.