always spend time with your loved ones, especially grandparents, youll never know when would be the last time youll see them before they're gone forever. my maternal grandfather left me, while i was on the way to see him and got struck in traffic and my paternal grandfather, went to the hospital and then never came back the same way and interestingly, i talked to him before he went to the hospital. i also had an exam that day and he wished me luck and told me we will talk after my exam and all i said was yes yes and pls go to the doctor and get your left shoulder treated and then after my exam, we will discuss the menu and guest list for your 50th anniversary, if only i had known that it as the last thing ill say to him, maybe i would have told him how much i loved him but i couldnt and the next time i saw him, he didnt answer and i couldnt say anything and neither he nudged me to say something and the only regret ill always carry w me is not seeing him enough before he was taken for cremation, as i couldnt watch the scene where he was kept in the hall of our place and i was outside for majority of the time, unable to accept it
the lesson is do spend time your grandparents and cherish every moment w them