It took me a long time to be OK with certain situations happening in my life. Even though it still hurts remembering the way certain things ended, because it left such bruising. So when I make the decision to not allow things to continue to cut ties. It is because I have grown too much to allow someone to cut my roots at the core. I have learned too much to allow the past to repeat it self if while leaving me in pieces all over again. And I hv came too far to allow my life to get ripped apart again. History is behind us for a reason. So we shouldn't allow it to rule our future as if we can change what's already happened. Because we can't. But we are in control of who we let into our lives going forward. So we are able to be cautious about who we let into our hearts....