I go by they/them 
I'm a corgi hoarder on Xanje (here's my referral link if anyone's interested, https://www.xanje.com/register?refer=114733183816106900538-Kastper, it's a virtual pet game, very addictive.) 
I take consideration of all ideas of how the story should go on all my books, they don't always have to be related to the book.
And very importantly, I do not give up on my books unless I've specifically stated so.