Katarwyn
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Hello all,
I never thought I would be writing this tribute. My heart and prayers go out to Liam Payne's family, friends, and bandmates from One Direction. His passing is a tragedy and shock no matter the circumstances. I have a confession to make, from middle school to high school (right around when they released History), I was a Directioner and I had no idea that the much-anticipated 1D reunion would be at a wake. I remember the first time I ever listened to them was in ICarly. I was ten, dancing around my parents' bedroom to "What Makes You Beautiful" like a maniac. I didn't do this for Bieber (not a fan and never will be) and other artists similar that Millennials and Gen Z will always remember. From the start, I thought Liam was the cutest and most talented in the band. I also appreciated his resilience in auditioning for the X Factor twice. As I'm the mom friend in my circles, I can relate to how the guys describe him as the dad of the group. However, I think even the mature ones amongst us, pain is often hidden or comes at some point. While I still love 1D, I look back and wonder is it really wise to throw teenagers into super stardom when they haven't been through life yet? Liam openly discussed how early fame kind of fucked him up. I honor, relate, and break knowing his mental health and addiction struggles. Whether these contributed to his death or not, we cannot understate how these circumstances impact people, even if they're famous. I am in a budding mental health industry and see people who like Liam, struggle with these things and systems have failed them to the point where they are at their wit's end and considering ending their life. I have come to believe it is possible to truly possible to treat mental issues and suicidality. So, whenever I hear of a death like this, whether suicide or an accident, I believe it can be prevented and that makes it even more tragic. I mourn Liam. I mourn my childhood. I mourn when it's too late to save someone.
Katarwyn
I also want to include these resources on my page as if you are struggling with similar issues that Liam did, having difficulty coping with grief, or just need someone to talk to:
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
A free, confidential service that is available 24/7 by calling or texting 988, or chatting at 988lifeline.org.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
A well-known online resource that can be reached by calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You can also chat with a counselor via the Lifeline Chat.
You may also want to research particular resources in your area, those for the LGBTQIA community, other aspects of intersectionality, and more. If there is a family member, friend, or community member like a teacher or counselor, you trust, their support is meaningful too.
This may sound like a broken record, but you are not alone. You are enough as you are. I see and hear your struggles, even if I don't know you because I've been there and still go to dark places sometimes.
