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Honey, I know exactly how you feel. My whole family is made up of homophobic Jesus-Freaks. Being a 14 year old bisexual, this is difficult. However, whenever they go off on me about being gay the thing I always say is "Listen. I'll do me, you do you. If this is how I want to live, so be it. Stop being fucking assholes because I'm getting tired of your shit" and it usually shuts them up pretty fast. I'm not saying you should say that to your mom, but it usually works for me. I wish you the best of luck.
Love,
Faith.