@KennasAlt119 heyy kenna im saying all of this because our friendship means a lot to me, and I believe it's worth fighting for. However, the recent events have caused me significant pain and I need to address them directly and honestly.
I'm very upset about how you were talking about me to your second hour in a negative connotation, and the emotional pressure I've felt has crossed a line. A healthy friendship cannot exist without mutual respect and clear boundaries. It is not acceptable for my private thoughts or our personal disagreements to become public gossip. It is also not acceptable for me to feel manipulated into certain feelings or actions through guilt or obligation.
For this friendship to continue, I need to establish what I require moving forward:
An end to gossip and speaking about me or our conflicts with others.
Direct and honest communication between us, without games or manipulation.
A foundation of respect for each other's feelings, perspectives, and personal boundaries.
What happened hurt me deeply. I need to know that you understand why this was hurtful and that you are genuinely sorry for the specific actions that caused this pain. I expect a real heartfelt apology, not something that you generated.
I am leaving the door open for that. I am not writing this to end our friendship, but to clear the air and state what is necessary for it to be healthy and strong again. The ball is in your court. If you are willing to respect these boundaries and offer a sincere apology, I am here to listen and to work on rebuilding trust.
If you are not, then I will have to accept that and protect my own peace. I hope for the former.
