Hey sweetie, sorry for your loss. I sure understand adhd, so there with you. Only have 2 left at home of my 6 children seems so strange… I can’t write to save my life… read, edit, teach English, math or reading no problem… write, forget it… my vice is knitting. You wouldn’t believe how many nearly finished projects or just started projects I have … I’ll work on finishing one at a time … hopefully with out starting another until they are all done…. When you catch a break, you can finish this story. :) I’ve started slipping away to a coffee shop one hour before work or even after… that’s my ‘me’ time to knit. Maybe you don’t need a whole hour??