KleinerBonsai

There are times when you just sit, and all kinds of thoughts suddenly appear in your mind. You can't stop them. And among those thoughts, you just wish that, for once, people could take your pain from you and feel it themselves—the silent battle you fight every day just to pretend that nothing hurts you.
          
          I'm talking about those people who have a habit of putting others down just to feel superior. They forget that humans have emotions to feel. Even if they can't be there for someone, it's better to not say anything hurtful. They always come up with things like, “Oh, there you go again, complaining like a kid,” “There goes your daily drama and tantrums,” “Try growing up instead of kidding around,” or “Are you really that weak to handle basic problems?”
          
          There are so many other things people say without realizing how deeply hurtful their words can be to someone who is trying their best to keep going while struggling with their emotions and silent battles.
          
          Just know that your emotions are a part of what makes you human. You need emotions to experience life, understand yourself, connect with others, and respond to the world around you. Even emotional numbness can happen when a person has been overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted for a long time.
          
          You are not wrong or weak for feeling this way. You are human, and you are allowed to feel, understand, and slowly heal.
          
          We can't just erase people from our lives. They are going to be there, and some of them will continue to criticize you. But try not to let their words make you believe that the way they treat you is acceptable. Their words don't decide what your emotions should be worth.
          
          I know some battles are too difficult, and sometimes words aren't enough to heal them. But I just hope you never lose hope. Keep going, even if you have to take it one day at a time. You deserve the chance to understand yourself, feel what you feel, and slowly find your way back to yourself.

I need to remember who I was...

Case No. 001 — Being Too Rough on Yourself.
          
          We got a case that someone has been missing their confidence and trying to give up.
          
          Yes, the one reading this message. You. You are the one we’re talking about.
          
          Why are you being so harsh on yourself? Why are you thinking no one loves you? Why are you trying to give up? What’s wrong? Are you alright? Genuinely?
          
          I know you’re tired. I know you’re exhausted and want to give up. But never stop. Never give up.
          
          Remember, good things happen and bad things happen. Life keeps going. It has ups and downs, but that doesn’t mean you give up.
          
          Smile. Treat yourself to something you like. Stay positive and don’t give up, okay? Promise me you’ll always smile and keep going. Keep imagining. Keep building. 
          
          If this message reached you, know that it needed to come to you.
          
          Spread this message like spreading love and positivity, and please smile after reading this. 
          
          Started by: @Elite_Author3182012
          With love. 

Sometimes you feel like you are in a very complicated situation, and everything feels extremely frustrating. You become confused by your own emotions and start behaving differently. Your behavior changes in unusual ways, even you aren't sure what is happening. Everything feels too overwhelming, and it feels like you are going to burst at any moment. These can be signs of mental frustration that has been building up for a long time. It slowly starts taking root inside you and gradually begins to surround you. People begin commenting on your behavior, even behind your back, just because of the sudden changes they notice. All of this adds to your overthinking and makes you feel even more miserable.
          
          We all overthink and make expectations about what might happen. We imagine the worst situations and even predict how people might react. We prepare ourselves for their harsh words and actions, but when we are actually in that situation, everything feels different from what we imagined. Even if you expected the worst in your mind, it still hurts deeply when it really happens. Words hurts, they stay with you like permanent scars. The more you think about them, the more intense the pain becomes.
          
          You are not a machine that people can expect to use however they want. If they can't accept you with your emotions and flaws, then they truly don't deserve you. The more you take their words and behavior to heart, the more it affects your inner peace and your ability to become better. I know I am sitting here giving advice without feeling your pain, but I truly want you to accept yourself with all your emotions and not put yourself down just because people don't know your worth. It's just that some people fail to see your value. If someone made you feel worse today, then please don't blame yourself any further. Sit quietly, give your mind some peace, and don't let negativity take over. People don't always understand what someone else is going through, and that's the truth.

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          Danke fürs zurückfolgen ^^ 

Don't make quick decisions when you are overwhelmed because, at that time, everything feels out of control. Your emotions are at their peak, and they push you towards making the worst decisions. You may do things that you regret later, so it's better not to make your life even more miserable when you are already in a miserable state. All kinds of negative and angry thoughts start appearing in your mind. That negative pull inside you takes control and leads you to make the situation even worse.
          
          I understand these kinds of situations where you are alone, battling with yourself, trying to stay composed for the sake of people who don't understand you or your condition, not even a little. To some people, it looks like overreacting or throwing tantrums, but the reality is very different. One of the biggest problems is when people refuse to even listen to your explanation because, in their minds, nothing you say is right. Sometimes, the environment people create becomes so suffocating that you just want them to forget about your existence. Thinking like this can be a sign that you have been suppressing your feelings for too long, even beyond the stage of emotional numbness. It is a reminder that you need to start paying attention to your mental health.
          
          We are not just living; we are surviving, and that is part of life. To survive, you need to be aware of the situation you are in. There are positive ways to survive, so you don't have to keep running towards negativity. Sometimes, negativity comes running towards you for no reason because it has become a habit, and habits take time to change. How much time? That depends on you. It may look impossible, but it isn't. One of the biggest lies an overthinking mind tells you is that it is impossible to become a better person. If you keep believing that lie, you may never break out of the overthinking loop. The choice is yours. You are worthy of becoming the best version of yourself.

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          Danke
          Ich glaub es  nicht Ahhhhhhh ^^ 
          Love you ♥️ 

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Friendship is a relationship that isn't connected by blood, yet it connects people so deeply that many find it easier to share their life problems with their friends than with their blood relatives. It is a bond that brings strangers together and slowly builds trust between them. I know nothing is perfect, and friendship is no exception. It doesn't have to be perfect. There will be ups and downs, arguments and forgiveness. Some people have been friends for months, while others have stayed friends for many years. Some are still close to their old friends, while others have different stories, and that's okay.
          
          There are people out there who call themselves unlucky or unfortunate just because their friends left them. I'm not here to lecture you about things you already know. I'm writing about this topic because many people are not only hurting their mental health, but they are also shaping their thinking in a negative way that won't help anyone. No one is born perfect, and humans don't have to be perfect. We are simply human beings with emotions. You did your best. You did your part. You showed genuine emotions, and you truly cared. But people have their own minds and make their own decisions. You can't force anyone to stay or choose your bond.
          
          You are not an unworthy person just because you don't have old friendships anymore. People choose to leave. Sometimes they give reasons, and sometimes they don't. You shouldn't keep putting yourself down because of that. You did whatever you could, so focus on that. Why always focus on the negative part? People come and go, and some bonds are hard to forget, but you can't stay stuck forever. I know it isn't easy, and I understand that no one can truly measure your disappointment or your pain. But you shouldn't carry that burden for too long. I hope the best things come into your life. I can't take your pain away, not even with words, but I truly hope they bring you some comfort and help you feel a little more at ease.

Some days are just confusing for us. We can't come to a conclusion about what is actually happening to us. You feel every emotion at once, and at the same time, you can't even name what you are feeling. You don't even feel like doing your favorite activities, and you also don't feel like interacting with your loved ones. Days like these also exist, and they are difficult to go through because nothing makes sense to you during those times. And it's even more difficult to explain it to someone when your own emotions are confusing to you as well.
          
          One of the hardest feelings to explain is when your emotions become confusing. You are not happy, but you are not completely sad either. You want someone to understand you, but at the same time, you don't want to talk to anyone. You feel like crying, but your tears don't come out. You feel like saying so much, but your mind gives you no words.This is what confused emotions can feel like.
          
          Many people think they are becoming cold or heartless because they don't react the way they used to. But the truth is, sometimes your mind becomes so tired that it stops expressing emotions the way it normally does. It is not because you don't care. It is because you have been carrying too much for too long.
          
          Imagine carrying a heavy bag every single day. At first, your shoulders hurt. After some time, you stop noticing the pain because your body gets used to it. The pain is still there, but you no longer react to it in the same way.Don't overwhelm yourself by thinking that you are being ridiculous or that something is wrong with you. It's okay. You are being normal. Things will make sense one day. I know it's painful for you right now, but never lose hope.