Came out to my mom as pan in the car while my dad was inside getting smthn from the store. I’ve known I’m pan for 5 years. She said I was straight b/c I liked men and then proceeded to tell me that me thinking women were hot was what everyone thought. Making this clear: she’s not homophobic, most of my friends are lgbtq+ and she doesn’t treat them differently than anyone else, she understands and uses their preferred pronouns. She also said I just liked women because all the guys I’ve met act like boys. I want to cry. But my dad will ask me why I’m crying. And he’s homophobic. I really thought she would support me and am extremely disappointed.
