The reason why I hated my relatives is that they are very intrusive. Like whenever I post something like my graduation or a post about memorable memories in school, they would pm me and tell me to focus on school because I was not doing them proud, acting like I am a typical outgoing/ social girl, it just pisses me off. They all live far away from me and my family all separated from them because of my mom's trauma of losing us after my dad's relatives left me in the middle of a rice farm and them causing emotional trauma on me when I was a kid by always hitting my head with something hard, which is good for us because they also keep asking us for money even though we need the money for OUR needs instead of theirs.
My mom's relatives are very desperate for money, which just plain out pisses us off. They apparently love to shame us in public, gossiping about our family to others due to bitterness of us managing to live, survive, and thrive in a city and them being in a province ( I still can't find anything wrong with living in a province, I mean the place is peaceful). And when I told them that I wasn't and won't be in a freaking relationship because I am Asexual and possibly Aromantic (I wasn't quite sure with the latter), they then shamed me because I need to be a proper lady. Bish, I don't wanna be a freaking housewife! I wanna be successful, satisfied and I ain't gonna be like them, who can't choose their priorities straight. I know there are some who are nice and are tolerable, but there are just most who are just damn greedy, even going so far as to sabotage my mom's (and her sisters) portion of the family will.
Recently, I also got a random pm's from people that claim to be my relative. Our family is big but I also know a smaller portion due to that trauma. And thanks to that emotional trauma, I have now issues with socializing with people.