Hey um I got to ask you something. There is this girl at my church, she is my best friend and i found out tonight that someone had been randomly calling and saying mean stuff like go to ;( or your fat and ugly. She has been cutting her self on her arm and she won't tell me. I found it out by one of her and my friend. What should i do? I want to help her but she dosent want help. I need advice. I cried knowing i might loose her.