Kryzuki
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A friend told me that his relationship and the girl that he loves may have start to had enough of him, bored of him, tired. But you see..
Every relationship is "boring"after you've been together for years. Love isn't "just" a feeling, it's a commitment to love every day, physically, and emotionally. It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles, and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being "fun" sometimes even start looking for someone else or just decide that they are better off pursuing their dreams, because "the spark is gone". No, that's not how it works. You want someone, somebody, to not give up on you and love you unconditionally then do the same. Be the change. This isn't Hollywood, this isn't the movies, this is not a fairytale. That shit is not real. Love the person no matter what or who they are, when they aren't easy to deal with, when they're hard to love. It comes with no condition.
That is from my view and from my experience, i hope my friend's relationship and everyone else's relationship won't be broken with sadness, talk to about it and if possible, in person, not in texts.
Like prince EA said, if you two have problems no matter what it is, remember.
Pause, put your attention to that moment, breathe, hold your partner's hand, hug your partner, match your tempo of breathing with your partner, and be aware that both of you are alive. As you embrace your partner, imagine your lives 300 years from now, how does it feel? That one day you'll be forgotten? Open your eyes and you will realize, that how precious it is to be alive, you're still there, your love one is still there, and you still have an opportunity on this planet to choose love.
That's all i want to say, fight, people. Even second chances will still make changes if you're willing to.
