Being real I was always told if if they can't say it to yo face then it ain't directed toward you and make them have several seats. Like Marilyn Monroe said 
 "I'm pretty but I'm not beautiful I'm good but I'm no angel I sin but I'm not the devil. Nothings impossible cause the word it self says I'm possible Aubrey Hepburn.So I will tell u the truth and if it hurt yo feelings then oh well cause I'm princess petty