I answer to a survey on fantasy romance and suddenly I start receiving ads about novels where he DECIDES that she is his, he WANTS her, he DOES NOT ACCEPT her refusing him… WHAT’S THIS? Are we back to Middle Age?!
I CAN’T STAND passive, submissive, docile heroines, as well as arrogant, a$$hole, bullying male protagonists. Very few romance novels, and even less fantasy romance novels meet my taste. Even very celebrates sagas like Outlander disappoint me deeply.
I like stories where the female protagonists are capable of standing up to males – even when named females are taken captive, b€aten and t0rtur€d – and are equals to their men, and where the male protagonists use their head even with raging hormones and behave with the utmost respect towards women. This doesn’t prevent conflicts arising, even hard ones, between the protagonists!
It looks like an overwhelming majority of female authors think that romance has as a fixed rule the dominant male / dominated female relationship. I’m fed up with this backward idea, degrading both for woman and man.
Well into the 21st century, it’s high time to just stop with the “woman happy to undergo the male cravings” stereotype! #nobadboy #nosubmissivefemales