Lena-Presents
Hello Flowers, I just couldn’t stomach keeping Our Strange Love available on Wattpad anymore. There are some problematic aspects that are too integral to the plot while never being called out and addressed and I think it’s pointless for me to be wracked with worry and guilt every few months. The story is not worth changing from the ground up. So it’s finally taken down and I can stop stressing. I started writing that book over 10 years ago. My last edit was in 2019 I think? Also those of you who are 22-24, I am sorry but you will say and do things you regret in a few years. I think I stand by most of my viewpoints but there’s always a ‘I shouldn’t have said anything/I should’ve said that differently/Why did I get so serious about nothing?’. I think 10 years from now it’ll be the same thing. I think as humans we never stop growing and changing. Anyway, there’s so much toxic brainrot condoning unhealthy crap already out there in the world; I want young people on my profile to be exposed to my stories that can help them learn self worth and what healthy relationships look like instead. Unhealthy dynamics and mindsets should be addressed and managed realistically. OSL did the opposite and told you to consider it all fluff and comedy. Don’t get me wrong, I still think stories where people can zone out to comedy and fluff and romance without life lessons are great too. But those stories are on Tapas and… uh, well that’s it because I haven’t finished any of the 4-ish others. Just The God of Love is a Deadbeat. Cognitive dysfunction threw a wrench in my plans haha. Anyway, if you want to read stories about hurt people healing, check out When Best Friends Kiss (speedrun MC 14-22), This Is Not a Tragedy (MC 18-20?), or Wired Hearts (MC late-20s). Drink water, be kind, and stay safe. Love, Lena
RoyaleGates
I completely understood why you took your story down I had also done the same thing in the past where guilt took over me so I get that. I think it’s good that you want young people to be taught about relationships and self worth while reading your stories and I do think it’s important too cuz unhealthy and toxic relationships / dynamics shouldn’t be romanticized or glamorized. Reading can be fun and nice to escape tho sometimes realistic stuff wouldn’t hurt a bit I enjoy seeing realistic things in stories anyways. I’m also not afraid to call out problematic aspects in books I think nowadays ppl would call that reaching but I don’t see the point of staying silent so yeah
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