So show me all the parts of you that you don't love, so I know where to begin. You scare me he said. Why? she asked. Because I tell you things I can't even tell myself. 
I believe this is how I make him feel. Lost in himself. 
Love language, physical touch.
I once was afraid of people saying "who does she think she is?" Now I have the courage to say, "This is who I am, I Am She!"
No longer afraid to please myself and love me for who I am.