Hey. This is really important so listen up.
TW- self harm
Asking someone for a wrist reveal isn’t okay. Neither is telling someone they are ‘faking depression’. When you comment those things, they really DO hurt, and this is coming from someone who is barely a day clean.
You don’t get to say things like that to someone, especially since you have NO IDEA what others have been through. Things you say really really hurt if you aren’t careful.
You also don’t get to joke about trauma or triggers people have.
Another thing leading on to that, is comfort characters who have rough pasts.
When you bash characters and joke about their pasts, it hurts people who have actually been through similar things and use the character to comfort them because their character has been through the same thing.
I really don’t understand why people say things that could really hurt someone.
Please stop.