Everyone is stupid. No one will care who you were in three thousand years. No one. Be worth it to people around you now or you will never understand life. The point of life is to endure as much pain as possible and maybe find something that makes pain worth it. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Gender doesn't matter. Love is love. Whoever you truly love should love you back. It doesn't matter if you're female, male, intersex, non/agender, whatever you are, it's what you are that matters. Nothing more. Nothing less. So be it to haters. They can't find what will bring them happiness for they're unhappy, otherwise, why bother to try and ruin your happiness? Be what you are. Embrace the eccentric, the odd, the looney, the insane. Be what you want to be, not what others want you to be. Feel happiness, then you'll fulfill at least some of your purpose in this hellhole of a world.