M1ndOverMatter

So basically RAD is a rare attachment disorder thats caused by being in an unstable environment at birth (ex: going through multiple foster homes) and/or not being able to attach properly to your birth parents at birth (ex: my mom was a young teen so i rarely got to see her and when i was 4 she passed away from a drug od. My father abandoned me before i was even born).

I once saw somewhere that when you start looking for those little things that make your day better rather than looking for all the things that make your day worse, those amazing little things start to happen more often.
          It's time to savor the sweetness in what's already there. What's already around you. There's magic everywhere. Little things waiting to catch your eye and make you smile.
          Today, I encourage you to allow yourself to look out for those things, allow yourself to enjoy those things. Take life slowly today, and be on the lookout for some little things.
          I'm rooting for you <33

Thank you so much for existing. Big hugsss <33
          P.S. If you're not comfortable with hugs, I will gladly offer any of your favorite treats :>
          
          (Sorry I missed world mental health day, guys! I keep leaving at really inconvenient times. Anyway, I love you all, and I hope you're fighting your hardest to love yourself just as much. Lots of love and best wishes <33)

When it hurts the most, is when you need to fight the hardest. Whatever's going on, you do not have to experience this pain alone. I'm here for you, and I'm sure others in your life are also willing to support you. Please don't hide your pain. I know it's difficult to break the habit, but it only hurts worse in the long run.
          I love you <33

I have a message for anyone suffering through any type of abusive situation right now.
          It's not your fault. It's never your fault.
          You will get out. You're strong. You can make it.
          You're always enough.
          You don't have to become your abuser.
          Your good heart, your love, and your kindness doesn't have to change.
          I love you, and you will continue to find others who love you throughout your life.
          Nothing I say can solve the problems that surround you right now, but I love you. That's all I can say. Don't forget about the good things, no matter how small they may seem.
          

Thanks for 100 followers ❤❤❤
          
          A reminder that mistakes do not define you. Everybody makes mistakes, and it's a part of life. Sometimes it hurts, and the tiny things try to tear you down, but this is your life, and you have the right to live it. You are worth it. Don't let the tiny things get you down. Chances are, you're the only person still thinking about them. I love you, and I don't see you for your mistakes. I see you for your accomplishments and your kindness. Thank you for being so amazing. Try your best to keep smiling for me <33

Hi! I'm back. I apologize tenfold for being missing for almost an entire month without any warning. I had a lot going on, but I'm back, feeling and doing a lot better. And I do have a message for you all today or whenever you end up seeing this :)
          
          Insecurities that I find adorable:
          ☆ Chubby calves
          ☆ Two toned lips
          ☆ Freckles (Body freckles, face freckles, everywhere)
          ☆ Glasses
          ☆ Acne scars
          ☆ Stretch marks
          ☆ A huge gap between those two front teeth
          ☆ Chubby body types in general
          ☆ Olive toned skin
          ☆ Really pale skin
          ☆ Really dark skin
          ☆ Tan skin
          ☆ Brown or green eyes
          ☆ Ginger hair
          ☆ Skinny body types
          ☆ Those mixed body types with broad shoulders and in between skinny and chubby, idk how to describe it T^T
          
          You guys are beautiful just the way you are, and I swear there are so many people who are insecure of these things and it kills me inside because all of these things are the definition of gorgeous and adorable. As people, it's hard to see perfection in what already is and we always want what we don't have, but take a moment to appreciate you today because, as you can see, I appreciate you, so why shouldn't you do the same?
          You deserve love.
          You are worth it.
          No matter what.

Hello everyone! I apologize for not putting out any new messages recently. I've been very busy, and I haven't had a lot of time. However, I wanted to just thank you all for 100 read on "My Studies". This account was one of my biggest dreams for a long time. I hope that this is only the beginning for my work. Thank you so much for everything. If you haven't read that book, please consider doing so.
          I love you all so much. This means the absolute world to me. Thank you again, you're all very wonderful, and I'll be back here soon with some new messages for you lovely people <33

Here's to embracing your true self. Surround yourself with the things that make you comfortable. You don't have to change yourself or your boundaries for someone else. You are amazing and very loved just the way you are. <33

You can't save someone when you're also drowning. You deserve just as much as what you give to other people. <33