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I got a Artic Monkey's shirt today as well as a The Neighbourhood one and I just know they are going to be my favorite shirt for the next month cus I love their music and I love wearing band tees

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I hate having mineral deficiency's like actually, cus why do I have to take 6 pills a day becuase my last pills stopped working for my body. (they had 2 minerals I needed but not enough of them) 
          
          I knew my old pills didn't work becuase my magnesium was off and it was driving me crazy with non stop cramps that would tense up my whole leg so that was lovely. Hopefully the new stuff will stop these cus I hate them sm

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Nah why is my sister telling me that her walking up to me shaking her butt and walking away is normal.....
          
          Or when I am drinking out of a cup she holds the cup to  my face forcing me to drink is also "normal" to her. She says I don't have enough social interaction to know that it's normal for siblings to do that but all my friends have siblings and that's not normal for them. 
          
           Even I know that's not normal and I am 1. younger than her, 2. have less social interaction with her, 3. I have more friends with siblings than her and neither of them do the things my sister does to me. 
          
          This girl is another form of crazy cus in what mind do you think forcing someone to drink by holding their cup to their face is "normal sibling pranking each other" like NO. 
          
          It didn't feel like a prank especially after she made me still the drink on me becuase I couldn't drink more becuase she was still holding the cup to me face. Then she got all mad when I sprayed water on her shirt when she got red tea all over mine.

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Update on the argument with me sister, apparently me calling her delusional or sick in the head is manipulation according to her. 
          
          Which is just wrong becuase the definition of manipulation is defined as an action designed to influence or control another person, usually in an underhanded or unfair manner which facilitates one's personal aims. Methods someone may use to manipulate another person may include seduction, suggestion, coercion, and blackmail to induce submission. Which isn't anything of what she thinks it is. 
          
          Me calling her sick in the head or delusional when it makes sense in a argument doesn't fall under manipulation as it isn't a threat, blackmail, suggestion, or seduction since she is acting like it. 
          
          My sister is in her 20's btw she should know what it means before she calls me a manipulator when nothing I said falls under what it means to manipulate anyone. 
          
          I am not telling her how to feel so it's not suggestion becuase it's how she is acting and I am not trying to convince her to feel that way. My dad even said it's not manipulation and he married a narcissist and his mom was a narcissist so he knows what manipulation is. 
          
          Like where is this girl getting her information from becuase it obviously isn't from a trusted site or even google.  
          
          This girl go to in every argument is to call me a manipulator and a lair but she is just wrong. She needs to get her facts checked and that's all I got to say on that cus I am done talking about this. 
          
          Also I did call her sick in the head a delusional in the og argument after she refused to believe that I didn't want the guitar case but I say that every argument with her becuase it applies almost every argument we have becuase she refuses to believe anything outside her thoughts are the truth.

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Me and my sister rarely get along these days so here is a argument we had today. 
          For background my sister was given a guitar, she doesn't play it but keeps it in her room. I walked in her room and saw a guitar case on her floor empty, it was one of the cloth ones btw, and I asked why she had it, cus I didn't know she had one and I know she doesn't play or use her guitar. 
          
          She took this as me asking for it and got upset at me. I never asked for it I just asked her why she had it becuase she doesn't use her guitar and I never knew she had one. 
          
          When I said I never asked for it I just asked why she had it cus I never knew she had it she said I was manipulating her and was a lair. I don't see how I was manipulated her when I just stated how I never knew she had one and why did she have it. 
          
          Granted it was her stuff which was something she said while we were arguing but she asks about my stuff sometimes too and I never really ask about her stuff unless I need it for my parents or to do smth I was told to.  
          
          I know why she has the guitar as it was a gift and means a lot to her but I wasn't asking about why does she have the guitar nor why she doesn't use it becuase it was a gift from a now dead relative. I just never knew she had a case for it becuase as I said she doesn't really use the guitar or have things like a amp out so that's why I asked why she had it becuase I didn't know that she had it. She said she did try to learn how to play it when she first got it but gave up and haven't played since. I don't really know how that applies to me asking out of curiosity why she has a guitar case becuase I never knew she had  one on the first place.
          
          I get why I could be the wrong here for saying something about it or how I worded the question (I worded it how I og said it in here) but by sister and I aren't one the best terms right now and she argues at lot with me. I also dropped it when she said "why is it your business" when I first asked but it was barong up again.

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@MLBfandomart Ye it's not worth apologising then 
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@Miraculouslyokay I was just in the kitchen with her doing dishes and she came up next to me I looked at her through the corner of my eye becuase I was washing a dish at the moment and she took the water and she said "quit giving me nasty looks" I was just looking at her normally and I barely looked at her the whole time so idk if now is the best time becuase she doesn't seem to be angry about that anymore but is still irritated. 
            
            I think she feels like she was right by the way she was talking to me and ignoring me other than to say those words to me. She doesn't want to talk to me and quite frankly I don't want to talk to her ether so I think I am just going to let it resolve on it's own.
            
            I would apologize but she also argues me when I apologize so I don't think it's worth it as of now at least. She mentioned moving out before she started arguing with me which I feel bad to say but I am kinda happy if she does move out becuase she sees nothing wrong with calling me names and picking fights over little things, like today, then make it other peoples problem/ bring other people into it to the point our parents have to stop the argument.   
            
            She also never apologizes to me and when she does it's always a "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'm sorry" with attitude for no reason. I am not saying this as I shouldn't apologize but she doesn't apologize truthfully as least it doesn't feel that way and doesn't take my apology half the time so it feels there isn't much of a point especially since she is still pissed off.
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@MLBfandomart Ye I think yr brother was told stuff by yr sister clearly 
            
            And idk if she's gonna keep acting like this, then even tho it's nice to apologise to her and the good thing to do... she'd just waste your time if she starts arguing with you again 
            
            But when she seems a lot more calm, just apologise and calmly explain. If she gets riled up by it, you know it's not worth it. Just say "I'm sorry" and walk off.
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My brother just told me that his friend's dad said I will have to learn salsa with a guy the next time I got over his buddies house. He made my brother learn it with a girl so he is 99% sure he will make me do it with a guy.
          
          Hell no. For one I might not even know the guy (as it was his friends dad who said it) so it could ether be his son, which is Ryan's cousin, or some random guy. 
          
          Send help. 
          
          I do dance but I never have done salsa nor danced with a guy. Hell I haven't even held hands with a guy that isn't my dad or brother how the hell I am I going to do this with a possible stranger.