MadsLecter

PART 1
          	Hi guys, I just want to rant so please bear with me ^^ I took up Practical Nursing as a course and I'm currently working as a Caregiver to an elderly woman having a Pott's disease (TB of the spine). I know it's disrespectful being frustrated to the elderly. Elders can be quite stubborn and won't listen to you but I can't help but be frustrated. At first, I can tolerate her behaviour in being stubborn in delaying in eating her meals, won't take her medications and always sleeping that makes it unhealthy but right now I can't take it anymore. I got really frustrated that my emotions got overflow. I started crying while waking her up to eat her dinner and she only said she won't eat and continued sleeping. I remember when my paternal grandmother used to be alive and lived with us. She was paralyzed from waist to below due to an accident. Eventhough she was struggling, she persevered and showed a happy emotions to us, she always asked for her meals, not complaining even if she only gets to eat bread and drink milk sometimes, asking for attention from her grandkids and being ignored, and I'm sad to say that I didn't give more attention and love to my grandma and took her for granted. She used to be happy if we talk to her and joined her in eating her meals. I got really sad that she died before she can watch her grandkids graduate in college and pour more love and care to her.

MadsLecter

@looking4jams it's my pleasure. ^_^ 
          I recently got hooked in reading TaeKook fanfics and I love your story ❤❤. I really like how Taehyung look so pretty while wearing a Snow White inspired dress and how handsome Jungkook looked in a dwarf outfit. Thank you for writing a love story between them that is inspired in Snow White fairy tale. Thank you and keep up the good work. Fighting!!! 

MadsLecter

PART 1
          Hi guys, I just want to rant so please bear with me ^^ I took up Practical Nursing as a course and I'm currently working as a Caregiver to an elderly woman having a Pott's disease (TB of the spine). I know it's disrespectful being frustrated to the elderly. Elders can be quite stubborn and won't listen to you but I can't help but be frustrated. At first, I can tolerate her behaviour in being stubborn in delaying in eating her meals, won't take her medications and always sleeping that makes it unhealthy but right now I can't take it anymore. I got really frustrated that my emotions got overflow. I started crying while waking her up to eat her dinner and she only said she won't eat and continued sleeping. I remember when my paternal grandmother used to be alive and lived with us. She was paralyzed from waist to below due to an accident. Eventhough she was struggling, she persevered and showed a happy emotions to us, she always asked for her meals, not complaining even if she only gets to eat bread and drink milk sometimes, asking for attention from her grandkids and being ignored, and I'm sad to say that I didn't give more attention and love to my grandma and took her for granted. She used to be happy if we talk to her and joined her in eating her meals. I got really sad that she died before she can watch her grandkids graduate in college and pour more love and care to her.

MadsLecter

PART 2
          In that moment, I thought that this elderly woman is quite lucky she can still walk, she has supportive family and caring grandkids unlike me who has lost my grandma in her sleep and took her for granted. I know that I'm being immature and unprofessional but I can't help it. I pity her family who always worry about her and making everything easier for her in order for her to be healthy and she's still being stubborn. I can't changed her behavior but she should consider what others feel in regards of her health. I can adjust to her stubborn attitude and hope for the better that I won't be kicked out of their house ^^ I'm sorry guys for complaining at you hahah XD I just want to let out my feelings and thoughts ^^ 

MadsLecter

@Sarang_A Thank you ^^ I'll keep in mind what you've said and also uphold what I learned in school about understanding the feelings of the patient and being patient with them. This is my first job and handling a patient with Pott's disease can be quite overwhelming.  Anyway, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!! your encouragement made my day . Thank you ❤❤❤
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Sarang_A

@MadsLecter  welcome... Anytime... I'm a med student so I know how difficult some patients can be... But hold on there and try to walk on their shoes... Is not easy for most of them and they become more stubborn... So yeah... FIGHTING!!!! 
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MadsLecter

Yeah, she always complain about back pains especially at her hips but she wasn't at the stage where she needed braces and collar. She only uses cane in walking or wheelchair if ever she gets tired. I can see that she's having difficulty but she's showing a hard work in getting herself better, not only for herself and also to her family.
            Thank you @Sarang_A for your advice and encouragement. I just want to let out my thoughts and have someone to confide with. Thank you ^^
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MadsLecter

@kotonamiyamazaki1 you're welcome ฅ'ω'ฅ and thank you for posting Do You Remember My Name? here in Wattpad. I love Hai Xiu and Feng Fei's sweet story. ♥♥
          Do you think it's weird that I find Hai Xiu's anxiety problem as cute?! ヘ( ̄▽ ̄*)ノ He's so MENG!!! ≥﹏≤HAHAHA sorry for ranting (°ロ°٥)
          Overall, thank you so much and I hope you would still continue updating DYRMN. ♥o♥ ♥v♥