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Since when did holding someone accountable start meaning that we have to dehumanise them?
          
          So yes….
          
          It’s okay to be disappointed.
          
          It’s okay to question your idols.
          
          It’s okay to criticise their decisions.
          
          It’s okay to step back from a project, or even from the fandom itself, if something goes against your values.
          
          But accountability does not require cruelty.
          
          You can stand up for what you believe in without becoming abusive yourself.
          
          Correct me if I’m wrong, but I genuinely think that’s where the line should be.
          
          

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And honestly, we all know there are people who hide behind the identity of being an ARMY, while using it as an excuse to attack the members.
          
          If you genuinely feel that strongly, it’s better to sell your tickets or simply not participate, than deliberately create a hostile environment for them.
          
          And if you’ve reached a point where you can no longer support BTS or stand by their choices, it’s okay to leave the fandom.
          
          You don't owe anyone your support.
          
          But before you send a threat, wish harm on them, or deliberately try to hurt them, remember that they are actual human beings behind that screen.
          
          They have feelings too.
          
          Imagine waking up every day and constantly seeing thousands of people mocking you, insulting you, wishing horrible things on you, and threatening you.
          
          How did this become so normalised?
          
          

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Okay, so I think most people are aware of the issue surrounding Namseok attending Ush€r’s concert.
          
          CB was part of the concert, and Namseok were vibing, interacting with the artists, and taking pictures with them.
          
          For those who may not know, CB has faced serious allegations of abus!ng women, including an allegation dating back to 2009. 
          
          I only found out about the allegations yesterday. I honestly didn’t know about any of this before that…I just knew CB as an artist, and I don’t usually listen to his songs.
          
          And maybe that’s the case for a lot of people. These allegations are years old, and a huge part of the fandom might have been kids back then, or might not even have been born.
          
          Even then….
          
           As a woman before an ARMY, I wouldn’t be lying if I said I’m disappointed.
          
          And I don’t think we should pretend that nothing happened.
          
          As Jimin once said, some fans put them on a pedestal. They’re human beings, and they can make mistakes. 
          
          So yes, it’s okay to be disappointed. It’s okay to question their choices. It’s okay to hold your idols accountable.
          
          But there is a line.
          
          And that’s where I draw mine.
          
          Sending threats, abus!ng Namseok, wishing harm on them, or calling them vile names is NOT holding them accountable.
          
          What exactly are we achieving by becoming abusive ourselves?
          
          How are we any better than the people we claim to be condemning, if we resort to verbal abuse, threats, and wishing harm on others?
          
          You can disagree with their choices without attacking them as human beings.
          
          Some people are also disappointed when BTS collaborate with certain brands or participate in certain projects. That’s okay too.
          
          You’re allowed to stand by your principles and values. 
          
          You’re allowed to decide that you don’t want to support a particular project. 
          
          You’re allowed to have opinions that don’t align with everyone else’s.
          
          But sending threats?
          
          Planning a black ocean?
          
          That is NOT fuck!ng okay.