And also clmaybe there throwing ideas, no you shouldn't become an alcoholic, club living, sex addicted, high always maniac, but have a little fun, enjoy a drink to calm the nerves, or a smoke to relax, or a club to laugh n have memories, yes these things can be dangourous, but not always. People abuse things that requires maturity, in truth that's not them being adults, there not acting there age, but adults don't stray away either, they just know how to be responsible with these kind of things, and not over do em.