relationship is not about love, for me it's all about sacrificing becuz when you love someone you don't hesitate to take a risk to make you're relationship work but if it you both not helping each other to growth you're relationship that's not love so let go. and if your man/woman doesn't value your emotion just let it go. and if you're lover has someone and can invalidate your feelings just let it be, just you need to do is love yourself don't force someone to love you the same way as you.