MarilynAHepburn
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Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! I’ve been a very bad Wattpad writer and reader these last couple weeks (my school had a two-week Winter Break). I had big plans to catch up on my reading and writing, but--nope. Instead, I caught up with the rest of my life.
I’m not going to lie--it felt good.
In my absence, I discovered my life needed more balance. Aside from my full-time job, writing, networking/interacting on Wattpad and sleeping (which were my focuses for most of 2018), I also need:
1. Exercise/Healthy eating
2. Dating
3. Spending more time with family and friends
4. Caring for my own physical/mental/spiritual well-being
5. Going back to school
6. Cleaning more!
7. …And other stuff
In other words, I need to find a better balance between chasing my dreams (writing) and enjoying the life right in front of me. Because as I focus on some moment in the future that may or may not ever arrive (my dreams)--the “real” moments that have arrived are passing before my eyes. I need to slow down a bit and enjoy the life that’s right in front of me--because before I know it--all the stuff I've taken for granted will one day be gone.
Bad Boy Programmer WILL be completed in 2019, but the updates may be a bit slower than before. Hopefully you understand. I do cherish all my readers who've journeyed with me so far on this project. In fact, I cherish y'all so much--I feel terribly guilty for reducing my time spent on Wattpad. I hope these slower updates aren't seen as a letdown.
May 2019 bring many blessings for all of us. I think it's going to be a great year. I look forward to spending a small part of that year with all of you in the coming months.
Take care,
Marilyn
PS: There could quite possibly be a side project coming soon--one where I share how well Amanda's online dating profile held up in the "real world." ;)
MindyLeah
@MarilynAHepburn But I am glad you are back and fun thing is even when you are gone sometimes your writing still trends on WP haha. That is cool. Miss you ...
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MarilynAHepburn
@Superbooger Gah! I might've cried a little at work when I read your message, Boog. But it was a good cry--a happy cry! And I love your metaphor! You are so amazing. Muah!
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Superbooger
DARLING! Wow dramatic opening line, sorry, also YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO GIVE EXCUSES! WE’RE ALL RIDING WHATEVER WAVE YOU SEND US, AND IF THEYRE FIVE MINUTES APART OR THREE YEARS APART WE’LL BE SITTING HERE, READY TO CATCH WHATEVER WAVE YOU SEND US.
Weird metaphor too, but point is we adore you and your life is what comes first always because Happy Life Happy Writer Happy Books Happy Reader. Your happiness first darling (I’m feeling very Edna Mode sorry).
Eat some nachos, enjoy life, go for a walk in some part of nature with someone that makes you happy, and love life. No amount of updates would make me happier.
Now gO MY DARLING! GO, SEE, AND CONQUER!
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Vikeperotti
Hello, after reading your profile,l could not help but feel a sense of calm in you, A smile spread on my face, not only with your self, confidence. l would be very happy if we can work things out as friends ,l am open mind man!!
MindyLeah
HellooOoOOoOooOooOOoOoo I am back on Wattpad.
MindyLeah
I should bake you more McSexy sugar cookies if my design shop was still open. I remember 4 years ago you go into the hospital and come out with a Wattpad featured story based on a nurse. Only you dear ... could. THAT alone would make a great Netflix movie. @MarilynAHepburn
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paulapdx
@MarilynAHepburn - Thank you so much for adding The Descendants to your Marvelous Mysteries list! That's so sweet of you!! ❤️ How's your 2019 master Plan coming along? Are finding a better balance?
MarilynAHepburn
@paulapdx I'm slowly searching for a balance (mental health, exercise, dating/romance, family, creativity, work, friends, etc.). It's hard. I want it all--in every area. But I find I'm having to make some choices. The main one being realizing that in order to be balanced, I have to release my grip on a desire to be brilliant. If all my focus is filtered into one area (in the pursuit of being brilliant), my entire life falls out of balance. Darn it, Paula! I really wanted to be brilliant at something! Maybe I can be brilliant at being balanced. hahaha.
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MarilynAHepburn
Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! I’ve been a very bad Wattpad writer and reader these last couple weeks (my school had a two-week Winter Break). I had big plans to catch up on my reading and writing, but--nope. Instead, I caught up with the rest of my life.
I’m not going to lie--it felt good.
In my absence, I discovered my life needed more balance. Aside from my full-time job, writing, networking/interacting on Wattpad and sleeping (which were my focuses for most of 2018), I also need:
1. Exercise/Healthy eating
2. Dating
3. Spending more time with family and friends
4. Caring for my own physical/mental/spiritual well-being
5. Going back to school
6. Cleaning more!
7. …And other stuff
In other words, I need to find a better balance between chasing my dreams (writing) and enjoying the life right in front of me. Because as I focus on some moment in the future that may or may not ever arrive (my dreams)--the “real” moments that have arrived are passing before my eyes. I need to slow down a bit and enjoy the life that’s right in front of me--because before I know it--all the stuff I've taken for granted will one day be gone.
Bad Boy Programmer WILL be completed in 2019, but the updates may be a bit slower than before. Hopefully you understand. I do cherish all my readers who've journeyed with me so far on this project. In fact, I cherish y'all so much--I feel terribly guilty for reducing my time spent on Wattpad. I hope these slower updates aren't seen as a letdown.
May 2019 bring many blessings for all of us. I think it's going to be a great year. I look forward to spending a small part of that year with all of you in the coming months.
Take care,
Marilyn
PS: There could quite possibly be a side project coming soon--one where I share how well Amanda's online dating profile held up in the "real world." ;)
MindyLeah
@MarilynAHepburn But I am glad you are back and fun thing is even when you are gone sometimes your writing still trends on WP haha. That is cool. Miss you ...
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MarilynAHepburn
@Superbooger Gah! I might've cried a little at work when I read your message, Boog. But it was a good cry--a happy cry! And I love your metaphor! You are so amazing. Muah!
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Superbooger
DARLING! Wow dramatic opening line, sorry, also YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO GIVE EXCUSES! WE’RE ALL RIDING WHATEVER WAVE YOU SEND US, AND IF THEYRE FIVE MINUTES APART OR THREE YEARS APART WE’LL BE SITTING HERE, READY TO CATCH WHATEVER WAVE YOU SEND US.
Weird metaphor too, but point is we adore you and your life is what comes first always because Happy Life Happy Writer Happy Books Happy Reader. Your happiness first darling (I’m feeling very Edna Mode sorry).
Eat some nachos, enjoy life, go for a walk in some part of nature with someone that makes you happy, and love life. No amount of updates would make me happier.
Now gO MY DARLING! GO, SEE, AND CONQUER!
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MarilynAHepburn
THE BAD BOY COMPUTER PROGRAMMER AT WATTPAD's newest chapters--Ping (Part 1) and Ping (Part 2)--are now up! These two chapters were meant to be read together, so you get two this week.
We're very close to Amanda and Ian crossing paths again. I can't wait to bring their budding romance to life!
Hope this message finds everyone happy and healthy!
Marilyn
elveloy
I'll have to get back to the Bad Boy computer Programmer... I haven't been getting update reminders :(
MarilynAHepburn
@elveloy Oh, no worries. It'll still be here whenever you have a moment--or if you don't have any extra moments, that's okay too. :) Sometimes it can get sooooooo stressful trying to keep up with Wattpad, life, general adulting, etc. This weekend I'm giving Wattpad a break to straighten my condo. By the time I get back from a full-time job, network, respond to comments, read other people's stories, etc--there's literally no time left to write and clean my house. That's not good--or healthy! Life can be so darn hard to balance sometimes--and there's many weeks when I'm not very successful at it--hahaha. I'll keep an eye out for your updates of new stories!
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LadySapphire2018
Thanks for adding The Seven Kingdoms to your reading list :)
LadySapphire2018
Yep. Well, the readers who found it did love it. So that's why I felt guilty about taking it down, but I feel that's fairer than having it stay unfinished forever lol.
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MarilynAHepburn
@LadySapphire2018 yeah... sometimes stories just don't grow the wings we had hoped for them. I've taken down a few stories myself. That's one of the nice things about Wattpad--you can test out story ideas before you get too invested in them to see how readers react.
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LadySapphire2018
I thought about Just Like Magic for a long time, but I hit writer's block on it and didn't want it to languish forever. The Seven Kingdoms and sequel is here to stay though. Yay on more free time.
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MarilynAHepburn
Happy Tuesday (well--it’s still Tuesday in Seattle)!
A new chapter for THE BAD BOY COMPUTER PROGRAMMER AT WATTPAD has finally been uploaded! FINALLY! It’s quite possible Amanda and her friends are having a little too much fun in the supermarket this week. I’d recommend making yourself a pina colada before reading this chapter.
https://www.wattpad.com/648036276-the-bad-boy-computer-programmer-at-wattpad
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I had the pleasure of being interviewed by the lovely @Glory_Feeling2 (Pia) for @adultfiction ‘s author of the month feature! Pia took my answers to her questions and weaved them with her own splash of humor to create a fun read. If you’d like to know more about why I write and how my Watty winning story (Nurse McSexy) came to be, then check out this interview:
https://www.wattpad.com/645994863-interviews-october-2018-interview-with-marilyn
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Also, if you’re interested in finding stories on @Wattpad with older, adult-aged characters--then be sure to follow @adultfiction (adult fiction means the characters are more mature, not necessarily sexy-time characters). Hahaha.
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Have you had a conversation with Artificial Intelligence (AI)? I have--and it ended up being hilarious. Read my conversation with @Zo here:
https://www.wattpad.com/story/165095431-the-pigs-took-a-bath
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That’s all for now, friends. I hope this message finds everyone happy, healthy and loved. Until next time!
Muah!
Marilyn
EvelynHail
Hi, thank you for starting to read “The Prophecy of Water!” I am still editing some tidbits and trying to improve it but I hope you enjoy it :)
Take your time, I see you have a busy reading list!