I know how random this is but it's not giving me the option to reply to your comments so I'd just say this
1: heard of pronouns? They can be identified as she/he if the author prefers. Sometimes they switch genders, because they feel like it. As a writer I've done it multiple times
2: I got a reply from you with the words "I hate you" like what's up with that man what did I do
Not hating or anything just wanting to clear some stuff up w you ifykwim