hahaha, not blaming love on one's self, more like saying, "Love happens in the mind, so you can't really say, 'with all my heart' or 'my heart is broken' without being incorrect. The heart is a muscle. Furthermore, when one's heart flutters because of something they are feeling emotionally (in the brain) it is a physical reaction as a mental response: psychosomatic." Just me being Spok Vulcan-like! ^.^