this message may be offensive
**An important note about my most recent chapter of Navy Blue Eyes: DON'T FOLLOW ROWAN'S LEAD. PLEASE. She is hurt and scared, but please promise me that you will never defend your abuser. Yes, she was sexually assaulted. She said no. She didn't physically respond. She didn't want what Tanner forced upon her. Whether or not there was any actual 'penetration' or 'orgasm' it is still by all means rape. If something like this ever happens to you (whether the person is your best friend, your relative, someone you met a day ago; whether its a girl or a guy, your age or a decade older or younger,) IT IS ILLEGAL. IT IS WRONG. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. You are the only person on the whole f---ing planet who has any say over what is right or wrong when it comes to your body. Your body is YOURS. Speak up! Be strong! Know that you are the only person with any authority over your own being! Your voice matters! You matter! You count! You are important! Scream it out, punch a punching bag, cry, write about it, blog about it, tell a friend, tell a therapist, tell the authorities... but never stay silent. Your voice is needed. You are worth it. You deserve to have the person who hurt you know what they did is wrong. You are worthy of an answer. But above all, it does not define you. It does not change the fact that you are a beautiful soul. It doesn't take away the memories of the time you learned to ride a bike or you made your first best friend. You are you, through and through. And you deserve better.**