Min_Finn

Hey. I know I shouldn't do this and nobody gonna read this. I just want to let it out and the friend I always let it out too is angry on me for no good reason. Today we had our class photo, (I study in boarding school) and we were supposed to be there at 10 but the shoot was going to start at 10 20 so we both mutually decided to go at 10 10. But then we saw that the kids of the section before us were still in the hostel so again we MUTUALLY decided to stay in hostel a bit longer. But then when we finally reached there we saw that our class photo had been taken already, and then we had to go get our admit card for finals from our class. But when we saw our few classmates whom we are not close with she just started blaming all of it on me and her tone was very insulting. And she did the same when we met our other classmates as well. Ok I understand that you are upset and angry with missing the class photo, but that doesn't give you the right to insult me in front of everyone!! That's not what a friend should/ would do!! Now I am thinking if I ever was a friend to her or she just took me like some to insult and degrade just to make her look smarter and wiser. She had degrade and treated me like I ment nothing and had no self respect. I am a very patient person so she always did that to me or cut me off mid sentence when we were with our other friends, but I never said anything about that cause she is a very short tempered person. But now I don't think I can take it anymore. She has been hurting me a lot since the year started. 
          	I know I was also wrong this time, but it was a mutual decision. Do you think that I am wrong and being childish?

blah_blah123aaa

@Min_Finn your not childish let's be real here a true friend will never insulted a friend but that doesn't mean that she can't angry but only at reasonable things but in this case I don't thing that is right like why she angry at you I do hope u find good friends 
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Soon_hoonist

@Min_Finn you aren't being childish bud. In a friendship or a relationship we all want to have mutual respect. So, you're right in your shoes. You should talk it out with her before reaching a decision. If she still insist on being the bloody sane person then I advise you to cut her off from your life. Because, she doesn't deserve your or whoever's friendship.
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Min_Finn

Hey. I know I shouldn't do this and nobody gonna read this. I just want to let it out and the friend I always let it out too is angry on me for no good reason. Today we had our class photo, (I study in boarding school) and we were supposed to be there at 10 but the shoot was going to start at 10 20 so we both mutually decided to go at 10 10. But then we saw that the kids of the section before us were still in the hostel so again we MUTUALLY decided to stay in hostel a bit longer. But then when we finally reached there we saw that our class photo had been taken already, and then we had to go get our admit card for finals from our class. But when we saw our few classmates whom we are not close with she just started blaming all of it on me and her tone was very insulting. And she did the same when we met our other classmates as well. Ok I understand that you are upset and angry with missing the class photo, but that doesn't give you the right to insult me in front of everyone!! That's not what a friend should/ would do!! Now I am thinking if I ever was a friend to her or she just took me like some to insult and degrade just to make her look smarter and wiser. She had degrade and treated me like I ment nothing and had no self respect. I am a very patient person so she always did that to me or cut me off mid sentence when we were with our other friends, but I never said anything about that cause she is a very short tempered person. But now I don't think I can take it anymore. She has been hurting me a lot since the year started. 
          I know I was also wrong this time, but it was a mutual decision. Do you think that I am wrong and being childish?

blah_blah123aaa

@Min_Finn your not childish let's be real here a true friend will never insulted a friend but that doesn't mean that she can't angry but only at reasonable things but in this case I don't thing that is right like why she angry at you I do hope u find good friends 
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Soon_hoonist

@Min_Finn you aren't being childish bud. In a friendship or a relationship we all want to have mutual respect. So, you're right in your shoes. You should talk it out with her before reaching a decision. If she still insist on being the bloody sane person then I advise you to cut her off from your life. Because, she doesn't deserve your or whoever's friendship.
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Min_Finn

Heyyy!! Not me doing the cringest thing by posting a note (?) For the first time here just so I can remember the date I finished my 100 svt ffs read mark with the book "talk nerdy to me" on 28th Feb 2024. I suggest to who ever reading this note to try that book it's really nice and I couldn't have been happier to complete my 100 with it ☺️