@BelovedKohai172 it absolutely is. I am appalled and soooooo freaking glad I saw the red flags before he tried to lure my oldest 2 years or so ago (she is currently only 11). Thankfully my kids listen to me when it comes to stuff that matters so they knew not to play with him at all if I was not present in the game. I also told him directly that he would NOT be playing with my children AT ALL UNLESS I was there too. Not long after he was spamming my oldest with invites and thankfully I was the on the other end of the screen and immediately called him out. He apologized, and I gave him a chance but not with my kids. Then I started seeing more and more crap and called him out again. He tried claiming He was just barely 18 when he first wrote these stories, And didn't know any better, didn't understand that it was wrong. He incessantly BEGGED ME to forgive him. At this point I was not aware just how bad he actually was, and thought maybe it was just warning behavior. Long story short I told him I needed time, He couldn't even give me much of that time I asked for, so I ended up giving him an ultimatum to stop playing with children And I'd consider playing unite with him. He said he'd stop his ways, but obviously escalated them instead. It's scary that He knows exactly how to appeal to young kiddos. Pretty certain I still have the receipts for a lot of this.