Everyone is liable to have a different opinion, don't think that everyone agrees to yours, and don't always think yours is the right one. 
Also, 
LGBTQ+ Novels and Danmei Novels have a clear line of demarcation between them, please don't blur it, LGBTQ+ Novels are mostly written and read to support Pride, Danmei novels are not, they are written& read because BL just taste soo good, they are purely fiction, so don't try pushing your ideals or realism on the plot or the characters, even if you can do that In LGBTQ+ novels. if you see me its mostly in Danmei, but i also read others, and i try holding back my tongue and fingertips as much as possible, so i don't think its rude for me to expect the same of you when reading Danmei. Im not trying to force my ideal on you, im just advising you to differentiate better between the two and improve your reading quality, i welcome the hate or opposition, but keep in mind, if you do, you're in the wrong here, if you don't understand why, please refer to the first paragraph.