People are funny. You do something wrong and rather than keeping out of it or attempting to understand that life isn't always as simple as right and wrong, they judge you. They judge you even though they, or someone close to them, have done the same or worse in the past. It is okay if they did wrong, or someone they love did. They forget every good thing you have ever done, every good decision you have ever made. Every time you stood up for them or fought their corner: That is all conveniently forgotten about so they are free to judge you and your sins, because they have decided that your mistakes will be the only thing to define you. They do this behind your back of course, because that's how these people work. The most amusing thing of all though, is that they assume their hypocritical opinions and judgements actually mean something!