MollyJ0616

People who ghost others do so in an effort to avoid a conversation and being honest when they’re cornered into being the bad person. 
            
            Write her a friendly and compassionate text or email and let her know how you feel. Avoid putting blame on her and instead explore how you can heal.
            
            Bridges aren’t worth burning if you don’t need to. She may be saying things to fit in with people and actually have super low self esteem and projects in a manner she believes others find attractive. 
            You’re a very smart woman and you can smell through bullshit. Misunderstandings often lead to relationships ending without being necessary. 
            
            At the same time I want you to be happy and to have the best life. If she is being negative and an emotional vampire and you feel she is using you, then move on. If in your heart you feel there is no way to salvage it, walk away until you can. Angry words cannot be unsaid and continue to hurt long after the sorry is said. I screw up relationships all the time because in my head everything is okay and people want to see you all the time. 
            But slip me her number and I’ll slap her around for being mean 

@joelmandre Well someone I gave 11 years of friendship to and treated like my sister ghosted me over books and talked bad about me to some of her other friends and basically she’s “using” me. Still talks to me when it’s convenient for her but never like it was before. 

@MollyJ0616 My heart is broken for you. You are a sweet, compassionate, and caring person. Who do I need to break for you? No one messes with family!