Wait I'm not aromantic I'm demiromantic it took a while to realise because I was convinced I was aro even though I felt it didn't completely fit. After lots of research I'm definitely demiromantic it feels really good to finally understand myself :)
I think I've accidentally fallen in love with a man who's 39 in 5 days. Why is this a problem you ask? I'm 16, aromantic and he lives in Australia and I'm from the uk. MY LOVE LIFE IS IN SHAMBLES AND I DON'T WVEN WANT A FUCKING LOVE LIFE
Can we talk about how in nearly all the smuts we read the women are always submissive, its starting to really annoy me. It's like men being subs is a negative quality and the women aren't strong or powerful enough to be doms, sounds like some internalised misogyny to me. this might just be the fem-dom in me or my kink for masc-subs but I'm surprised no one else is noticing it.