I really don't like reading lgbtq+ relationships where the couple only feels like a couple through lustful measures.
Like no, you don't need to constantly be freaky just to feel loved, that just means you're looking for a sexual relationship rather than a authentic love of a couple.
I find that mainly with LGBTQ+ people (IN STORIES GUYS, sometimes IRL but mainly stories) I don't know why some of them don't try to find love (fluff, and stuff like that) rather than lust. The people who mainly want a lustful relationship often end up straight, don't ask me why, I don't know (T-T)