MusicReader92
Happy birthday Mr. Harry James Potter!! I would not be here right now without you :)
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Okay, so, I like this guy. And I don’t tell my parents anything involving boys, and they’re also like pretty strict. But I may have just gotten myself into going on a date with him? Idk I’m screaming rn and I have no idea how I’m going to tell my parents this one... Help please?
MusicReader92
@turnthepidge I don’t know why I never saw this earlier, but this helps a lot, thank you :)
seerofthedeep
@MusicReader92 | if you want to be honest with them, go ahead and tell them that he asked you out on a date, he's really nice, etc. etc. literally just info dump. if you like him, let your parents know that. really let them know how excited you are to go on this date, and ask them about their rules for when you go on a date. make a concentrated effort to keep these rules and let your parents know what is going on (where yall are going, when yall are going) and tell him about this too, so he understands the boundaries pretty well. if you can, try and go on a double date. it'll make them feel a little better, and it's less awkward. now, if you don't want to be honest, tell your parents y'all are going with a couple of other friends to wherever the date is. if he is picking you up, tell them that he's picking everyone up and you were the closest. if they're dropping you off, tell them he's the first one there. let your friends in on what's going on so they aren't surprised by this knowledge if your parents ever ask them. when you get home, remember that your friends were supposed to be there with y'all. i hope this helps. i recommend being honest since it helps you establish boundaries early on, and it helps with creating trust with your parents. remember, they just want the best for you!
MusicReader92
I’ve never experienced heartbreak before, but this hurts. It’s like 2 in the morning where I am, and I can’t stop thinking about him. I’m writing through the pain, so in a month I’ll give you a book with everything.
Advice on how to sleep, please? I’m a wreck and I am just tossing and turning and writing
MusicReader92
@1d_5sos_hogwarts Thats okay, I made it through the night haha. Thank you, it really means a lot to me
MusicReader92
So found out one of my really close friends killed himself, I’m going to be taking a long hiatus, so sorry guys. I promise I will have writing when I come back, as writing is how I cope.
Do any of y’all have advice? I wish I could’ve been there to help him, I love him so much and I’ll never see his smile again...
Please, if any of you ever need to talk, reach out to someone. Whether it’s me, your best friend, a parent, a therapist, please talk to someone. I love you all so much
MusicReader92
@rainyradish Thank you for reading, I’m a silent reader myself haha. Thanks for the support too, it really means a lot to me
seerofthedeep
@MusicReader92 i don't think I have much advice - this is something I've never dealt with before, but I am so sorry you are experiencing this pain and loss. If it gives any comfort, you will have my thoughts and prayers with you.
MusicReader92
Looooong overdue, happy wednesday!!
https://my.w.tt/Njk9sgAz9V
MusicReader92
“be strong enough to let go, and patient enough to wait for what you deserve.”
MusicReader92
“the secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” ~Socrates
MusicReader92
@turnthepidge I never thought of hat before lol, I love the idea though! Quotes are my favorite form of graphic design so I really might do that, if I have time lol, thank you !
seerofthedeep
@MusicReader92 you should have a quote book! these are all beautiful, especially if you could illustrate them in someway.
MusicReader92
“failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. failure is delay, not defeat. it is a temporary detour, not a dead end.” ~Denis Waitley
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“worrying means you suffer twice” ~newt scamander
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“you can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last one.”
