People are books, puzzles and pawns. In that order. First they're read, then theyre figured out, then theyre persuaded.  Some would call that wrongly manipulative, but whats the alternative? Basically any advice my mom has ever given me. "Dont be mean, dont judge, be open." And yeah sure but, that only works when men dont wanna have s3× with you. Be tolerant of guys who get off by chocking you, no way that goes south. Whats wrong with a pizza delivery-boy with no career goals? Whens the last time you've asked your pizza man if he's a rapist? Theyre called warning signs, but ignoring them makes you a nice person. And one day if you're nice enough girl you'll end up just like me!