The problem with receiving critiques is that everyone seems to be too biased! They think too deeply of their own work, so of course when asking them for a request they are going to based you work according to their own. They pick and nip you story apart based on unnecessary statements and facts and will state that your story i needs major improvement. Which is wrong! That's the wrong way to critique.
When reading a person's story you need to have an open mind. And clean slate. Place your personal story out of reach out of mind. And then move forward. Critique isn't judging based on personal reasons, its giving feedback based on the work they are critiquing only!