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you know what, it fucking hurt me too. but you know what, I'm that much of a decent human being that i don't want to hurt you even more by giving you false hope.
you're exes might be dicks but I can assure you I am not, even though I may have left you 'heartbroken' they left you with the intention of hurting you
I offered to be friends because believe it or not I still want to be friends, even though I'm that much of a 'douche' to leave you broken.