I believe it is what it is. Those people who nitpick and hold on to the past are stupid. I know I sound like a Hippo-crate but they don't have to start drama by being like oh he said this and she said that just be your self sorry if it sounds cheesy but it's true because people that aren't afraid to be themselves are the most amazing people 

My friend taught me this because I used to be afraid of liking girls but she brought out the real me...