Nishtha_Rajput3

Hey everyone. So, I have a question. Actually there is a friend of mine who is confused about her feelings. 
          	
          	Basically, she had a crush on a guy. (Let's call him the first guy from the picnic).Like they met on a place and like she got a crush on him. Later on some days, she got to know from her friend through Instagram that he likes her too. She didn't do anything about that but smiled and kept the happiness hidden. He didn't know that she had crush on him too and she didn't tell him. Her friend knew about this and kept her secret hidden from him. She had crush on him for like 1-2 months and after that she was over him. And after like maybe 1-2 month, she got a crush on guy from  tuition centre. But she is a girl who doesn't show that she has crush on someone.
          	So,  she got crush on a guy from tuition centre. She didn't tell him but looked at him from afar and didn't make any effort. Cause she is focused type and doesn't let anything to distract her and she got over that tuition guy too in a month. But even when she had crush on that another guy, she would still think of that first one  whom she met on a picnic place. She would make fake scenarios when she had crush on first guy and smile and blush.When she had crush on the guy from tuition centre and was over the first guy, she would still think of first guy and make scenarios but didn't feel any kind of nervousness or excitement. Even she was over the tuition guy, she would still think of the first guy and she still does. Like some days before, she told me like when she comes from market, she would feel like nervousness as she saw people familiar like him but it was never him. She would listen to songs and also think about him. But she still thinks about him.. And as one of her friend said about him to her and she denies like but the blush on her cheeks said otherwise.. it has been like five- six months since she had seen the first guy then why she still thinks about him? 
          	
          	
          	Tell me  your opinions guys!!!

Nishtha_Rajput3

@imhereaskus and she is really nice. I mean she truly beleives that he deserves someone better. Like it is just Crush right? I mean it can't possibly be love right? This is what I think . What do you think?
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Nishtha_Rajput3

@imhereaskus  You are right. But you know as I have mentioned before that she is intorverted type so, she won't ever talk and she had clearly told me this. She thinks that he deserves someone better and she knew that like when she had a crush on him, he also had and she got to know from her friend about his confessing to have crush on her through Instagram. But she hadn't told him that time and she would never.  She is just in 10th and she thinks taht relationship just only drain energy , time and emotions. And plus this is not the age to indulge in all these things. This age is to make parents proud and become what you want in your life. Feelings will come and go. So she thinks like this and I don't feel anything wrong in that. I mean it someone wants to prioritise themselves over their feelings, then it's their choice. Often she thinks about him, but she knows how to control herself. It's not like that her family is not supportive. Her family is super caring and supportive. But she doesn't want to do anything it's her choice. She is just like afraid to show people her emotions and feelings as she is introvert type. She know how to balance her feelings and her academics too. And let me tell you one thing . She had never talked with him , only her one friend who knows about her crush on him talked with him on Instagram and that friend would usually tell her about him like how he asks about her well being etc. But who knows the reality right? But she doesn't want to indulge in all these things no matter what.
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imhereaskus

ask her to explain why she feels this relationship is not suitable at this stage of her life, her goals her ambitions everything she has in her mind..... So have a proper convo no... He maybe wants to wait for her...
          	  
          	  Look love can be blind but marriage or relationship is not all about love it's more about support, understanding, helping in achieving goals, self improvement....
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Iris-hope

Heyyy thanks for voting! How are you doiing??

Nishtha_Rajput3

@Iris-hope oo okay..
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Iris-hope

@Nishtha_Rajput3 Yup. I'm 21 actually...if you were wondering
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Nishtha_Rajput3

@Iris-hope Thanks.. Btw, Are you a college student ?
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Googlybl

Hey girlie 
          Kaisi ho sab theek?

Nishtha_Rajput3

@Googlybl ❤❤
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Googlybl

@Nishtha_Rajput3 yup tq (づ￣ 3￣)づ❤️
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Nishtha_Rajput3

@Googlybl pehle to thank you so much behen.. Mujhe smjh nhi aata ki aapko kya acha lgta hai meri stories mein.. I mean dusro ki bhi itni achi stories hain par fir bhi aapko dil se shukriya.. ❤
            
            Hnji, meine bhi notice kra hai Gl stories kam hain compared to bl stories.. Actually na, mein jaise ye apni ongoing stories khtm kr lun uske baad sochungi gl story ya straight story likhne ka.. 
            
            Dimag mein to kafi hain mere .. But haan ek baar ye dono complete kr lun apni stories fir next dekhenge...
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jeongchoel13

Hello author, I'm a bl fan, but Indian bl just hit different.  I am finding the story where ml and mc will have an arranged marriage . The timeline should be in the 18-19th century . If you are planning to write a new novel, I hope you will write a novel on this basis .

Anthos_Charis

Hello Is there any groups where we share our stories to other and read others story too?

Anthos_Charis

@Anthos_Charis Yes, I will try. Thank you
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Nishtha_Rajput3

@Anthos_Charis Well, just write your stories and publish them. It will take time but it will be worth at last.. All the best dear..❤️
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Anthos_Charis

@Anthos_Charis Oh! No problem
            Actually I'm new writer and don't know how to grow so I thought I need to ask. It's ok
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Nishtha_Rajput3

Hey everyone. So, I have a question. Actually there is a friend of mine who is confused about her feelings. 
          
          Basically, she had a crush on a guy. (Let's call him the first guy from the picnic).Like they met on a place and like she got a crush on him. Later on some days, she got to know from her friend through Instagram that he likes her too. She didn't do anything about that but smiled and kept the happiness hidden. He didn't know that she had crush on him too and she didn't tell him. Her friend knew about this and kept her secret hidden from him. She had crush on him for like 1-2 months and after that she was over him. And after like maybe 1-2 month, she got a crush on guy from  tuition centre. But she is a girl who doesn't show that she has crush on someone.
          So,  she got crush on a guy from tuition centre. She didn't tell him but looked at him from afar and didn't make any effort. Cause she is focused type and doesn't let anything to distract her and she got over that tuition guy too in a month. But even when she had crush on that another guy, she would still think of that first one  whom she met on a picnic place. She would make fake scenarios when she had crush on first guy and smile and blush.When she had crush on the guy from tuition centre and was over the first guy, she would still think of first guy and make scenarios but didn't feel any kind of nervousness or excitement. Even she was over the tuition guy, she would still think of the first guy and she still does. Like some days before, she told me like when she comes from market, she would feel like nervousness as she saw people familiar like him but it was never him. She would listen to songs and also think about him. But she still thinks about him.. And as one of her friend said about him to her and she denies like but the blush on her cheeks said otherwise.. it has been like five- six months since she had seen the first guy then why she still thinks about him? 
          
          
          Tell me  your opinions guys!!!

Nishtha_Rajput3

@imhereaskus and she is really nice. I mean she truly beleives that he deserves someone better. Like it is just Crush right? I mean it can't possibly be love right? This is what I think . What do you think?
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Nishtha_Rajput3

@imhereaskus  You are right. But you know as I have mentioned before that she is intorverted type so, she won't ever talk and she had clearly told me this. She thinks that he deserves someone better and she knew that like when she had a crush on him, he also had and she got to know from her friend about his confessing to have crush on her through Instagram. But she hadn't told him that time and she would never.  She is just in 10th and she thinks taht relationship just only drain energy , time and emotions. And plus this is not the age to indulge in all these things. This age is to make parents proud and become what you want in your life. Feelings will come and go. So she thinks like this and I don't feel anything wrong in that. I mean it someone wants to prioritise themselves over their feelings, then it's their choice. Often she thinks about him, but she knows how to control herself. It's not like that her family is not supportive. Her family is super caring and supportive. But she doesn't want to do anything it's her choice. She is just like afraid to show people her emotions and feelings as she is introvert type. She know how to balance her feelings and her academics too. And let me tell you one thing . She had never talked with him , only her one friend who knows about her crush on him talked with him on Instagram and that friend would usually tell her about him like how he asks about her well being etc. But who knows the reality right? But she doesn't want to indulge in all these things no matter what.
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imhereaskus

ask her to explain why she feels this relationship is not suitable at this stage of her life, her goals her ambitions everything she has in her mind..... So have a proper convo no... He maybe wants to wait for her...
            
            Look love can be blind but marriage or relationship is not all about love it's more about support, understanding, helping in achieving goals, self improvement....
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