Nobody8524

So, here's what's been going on in my life. My mother has been an alcoholic for my entire 24 years of life, even before that in fact. I just got news today after her visit at a UCDavis. They gave her 90 days to live if she doesn't get a liver transplant... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I give her my liver? I hate alcohol so it's relatively healthy. But... I just... I'm sorry. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this and really need some advice that's not from WebMD. Any one have some advice on how to go about this? I'd be eternally grateful.

h123r456s

@Nobody8524 I agree with RileyFinn1.
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RileyFinn1

@Nobody8524 hi, I've never been in this situation so if you must take the advice with a grain of salt but this is what I would want someone to say to me. If your mum was trying to come off alcohol and go with the sobriety (I think that's what it's called) then I would give it some thought cause at least she is trying to be better for her health and all. However if she wasn't and was going to continue drinking then I would be less inclined to 'cause she's just going to damage the liver that she's gonna get after the transplant. It's your body and you can decide whatever you want to do  with it, I would just consider the facts of what the most likely route that is going to happen if you do go with the surgery and give her your liver. You don't have to do the surgery if you don't want to, it doesn't make you a bad person just because you refuse to do so for whatever reason you choose no matter what other people say. All the advice I can really give is if you don't want to then don't just because she's your mother doesn't mean you owe her anything. But is you do decide to do it, make sure it's for the right reasons and your not getting pressured into anything you don't want to do no matter what status the hold.
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Nobody8524

So, here's what's been going on in my life. My mother has been an alcoholic for my entire 24 years of life, even before that in fact. I just got news today after her visit at a UCDavis. They gave her 90 days to live if she doesn't get a liver transplant... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I give her my liver? I hate alcohol so it's relatively healthy. But... I just... I'm sorry. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this and really need some advice that's not from WebMD. Any one have some advice on how to go about this? I'd be eternally grateful.

h123r456s

@Nobody8524 I agree with RileyFinn1.
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RileyFinn1

@Nobody8524 hi, I've never been in this situation so if you must take the advice with a grain of salt but this is what I would want someone to say to me. If your mum was trying to come off alcohol and go with the sobriety (I think that's what it's called) then I would give it some thought cause at least she is trying to be better for her health and all. However if she wasn't and was going to continue drinking then I would be less inclined to 'cause she's just going to damage the liver that she's gonna get after the transplant. It's your body and you can decide whatever you want to do  with it, I would just consider the facts of what the most likely route that is going to happen if you do go with the surgery and give her your liver. You don't have to do the surgery if you don't want to, it doesn't make you a bad person just because you refuse to do so for whatever reason you choose no matter what other people say. All the advice I can really give is if you don't want to then don't just because she's your mother doesn't mean you owe her anything. But is you do decide to do it, make sure it's for the right reasons and your not getting pressured into anything you don't want to do no matter what status the hold.
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Nobody8524

Howdy, howdy, howdy! I just put out an Informational Guide for a very important disorder that has effected my life deeply and wanted to share as much accurate info about the subject as I possibly can. Enjoy! I worked hard on it!

Nobody8524

I know it's been a good minute, but who's still interested in my story "Kindred Spirits {Edward Cullen x Male OC}"?

wolfcottonCandy16

@Nobody8524 Yes!
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Nobody8524

@wolfcottonCandy16 hell yeah!! the story shall continue then!! Hooray!!! :D
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wolfcottonCandy16

@Nobody8524 Me
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Nobody8524

I am terrified of the political world atm. I live in the US. If you know, you know. But being LGBTQA+ with a trans fiancé is becoming less and less protected and even more so targeted. My Tarot cards haven't been very positive lately for the future...

Nobody8524

Happy literal birthday to me, on this day at 9:18 am, I was born. Also! Tomorrow marks 9 years on this platform!!! I wanted to thank every single one of you for the support and enjoyment of my work, as well as all the joy you've unknowingly given me this decade. Thank you so very much!!!

h123r456s

@Nobody8524 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
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mylifescameo

Happy Birthday!!!
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FandomAndBooks14

OH MY GOD! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! (from 9:45am lol) AND HAPPY 9 YEARS ON WATTPAD!!! <3 <3 <3
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Nobody8524

Joke of the Month:
          
          A man checked into a hotel. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an email to his wife. He accidently typed the wrong email address, and without realizing he sent the email to a widow who had just returned from her husband's funeral. The widow decided to check her email, expecting condolence messages from relatives and friends. After reading the first message, she fainted. The son rushed into the room, found his mother on the floor and saw the computer screen which read:
          
          To my loving wife, 
          I know you are surprised to hear from me, they have computers here and we are allowed to send emails to loved ones. I've just checked in. How are you and the kids? The place is really nice but I am lonely here. I have made necessary arrangements for your arrival tomorrow. Expecting you darling. I can't wait to see you.

h123r456s

@Nobody8524 Lol
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Nobody8524

I finally found a job in this cruel world!! I'm going to become a Behavioral Specialist for those with Autism!! My training starts tomorrow, I'm so freaking scared but really excited too. If any one has any advice, please please please comment below. Have a nice day/night!!!!

Nobody8524

@solace_72 everything is actually going pretty well with the job! I was terrified at first, but the support network I have really helps a lot!
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solace_72

i’m so late but good for u bro that’s what’s up, hope everything is going well for you.
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h123r456s

@Nobody8524 YAY!!! I love it I have a little brother with autism and he's the sweetest boy ever. ....(and my favorite )
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Nobody8524

So, I have this story idea and I want to try and get it officially published (like professionally) but idk if anyone would actually like the concept. Would anyone like to know and give feedback?

h123r456s

@Nobody8524 wow that totally sounds like something I'd buy. I watch/read lots of stuff like that. I sometimes scare my grandma with how id I think if the bad guy did so and so different they'd get away with it
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Nobody8524

@h123r456s so, basically it's about this girl (the OC) going on this fantastical journey to get to the top of this really sheer mountain. but as she journeys on, she has to figure out the meaning behind certain travelers and creatures she meets along the way and how or why they relate to her. the travelers are always friendly and want to help, but the monsters are very persecutory but not in a way that would kill her. 
            When she finally gets to the top of the mountain, she find a cave with a massive iridescent door and on the other side, she finds herself as actually a patient in a psych ward. and had been stuck in headspace for 2 years during a D.I.D. psychotic break triggered by the death of her mother. She also discovers that every single being she had come across through out the entire book were her alters, traveler and creature alike.
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h123r456s

@Nobody8524 yes
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