So theres this video about a guy and a girl telling the story of how they got engaged, and the guy was very clearly unhappy in the relationship, very clearly gay, but the girl was completely inconspicuous to the matter and are still married today. They now have a kid.
The comments were turned off recently, it was mainly like "get him a man" or "hes so unhappy, i feel so bad" stuff like that, but there were a few who didnt understand why everyone was saying it. Those people are oblivious to body language and subtlety. They WERENT in love, SHE was in love with him, or the idea of him. It breaks my heart to see him unhappy and it hurts to know there are more people trapped in a situation like this.
Heres the video.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ADjrbHBpey4&t=8s