I went back to an old book of mine that I never published and had to change so any damn things. I slowly realized this shows how much I changed over the years.
Biggest changes I noticed was 1. My writing style, and 2. My identity. I used to just be Pansexual, now I'm Panromantic and Demisexual. I usted to go by all pronouns, but "preferred" They/Them. Now I'm completely Non-binary and go by They/Them.
I relized I usted to say I went by all but "preferred" They/Them because I had ZERO backbone, and I was terrified what people would think about me.
I've grown so much, I've discovered myself so much. And I know their are some people out there who are scared to discover themselves, just like I was. But I just wanna say that I am loving proof that if you can be true to yourself, you can be happy. I am so much more confident and sure of myself now that I'm out and don't care or listen to negative opinions. It was hard, But I did it. I know it seems so scary and near impossible, but you can do it. It gets so much better if you're true to yourself. I promise.
