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Verily, man was created very impatient. Irritatable (discontented) when  harm touches him. And niggardly when good touches him. { Al-Quraan ; 70 : 19-21}

So this is the characteristic of a comman man, what a pathetic life he lives, for he has no patience when calamities befall him and is dissatisfied when harm comes his way forgetting that it was Allah who put him in such a situation and He alone has the solution.

Ali (radhiyallahu anhu) was absolutely right when he said:

How strange and foolish is man, he loses his health in gaining wealth, then to regain his health he wastes his wealth. He ruins the present while worrying about his future,but weeps in the future recalling his past. He lives as though death shall never come to him but dies in a way he was never born.

Allah created each of us for a reason -i,e to worship him with sincerity- as his ibaad (slaves) we are obliged to be under His obedience.

look around you, outside your house or anywhere... All I know is whatever you see there is fitna , you'll find you sibling  listening to music, yet you did not warn him about the punishment to come, but you join him in listening to it.
You see some charming guy on the street or some pretty young lady, instead of lowering your gaze, you think how to make the first move, forgetting He (swt) is watching all your moves.....

try not to be too late, because when firawn (pharoh) declared his faith his punishment was already begun...

and never forget,

 ALHAMDLILLAHI ALAA  KULLI HAAL 
(All praise is to Allah in any condition)