so i haven't been on here in a while, and i'll admit im not as into 1D as i used to be. anyways, as im sure most of you know by now, liam has passed away.
liam has done a lot of bad things. i haven't supported him for the past couple of years. i support maya and other victims of his abuse who are coming out and speaking up about it.
liam was not a good person, he made a lot of poor choices. that being said, he meant so much to a lot of us, myself included. those two facts can coexist, and if you're having complex feelings, grieving him, you're valid!
i've been crying on and off, feeling quite shaken by the news, mourning the liam payne from one direction, liam payne from 2010-2016, the liam payne who made us smile and laugh and saved my life. i mourn one direction and my childhood, i grieve for my younger self, because ot5 was her world.
grieving liam is valid. don't romanticize him - he was not a good person - but you can feel upset about his passing. please don't attack maya - this is not her fault in the slightest.
sending my love and condolences to liam's family, friends, cheryl, his son bear who didn't deserve to lose his father so young, the boys, and all other directioners.