Can we all agree that if your child was taken away from you because it's not safe for them that they should be allowed to ignore you when you contact them so much that they start crying from stress without being called selfish and without having the people that work at the group home that the child lives at and who know what happened even say stuff like, keep the contract tight maybe one day you'll get along again... Like nah m8, I've been through hell for years and I don't care if it's something small at the moment I don't want to talk to them anymore, I get to be angry, I'm allowed to take care of myself and it's okay if I haven't been able to forgive someone for such horrible things after a year