I need help.
So for those to don't know I have a boyfriend. But I feel like he's to clingy and trying to be my shadow, he'll hug me at random times even though I've told him I'm not comfortable with that. He'll say I love all the time and when I told him I don't like public affection or affection in general he just said he'll keep doing it.
So I decided I'm going to break up with him, I told my best friends and one of them (i'll call her person a)is also best friends with my boyfriend. When I told her she got upset over the fact that she'll be spammed all weekend because I've lost feelings for him and don't want to date him anymore.
My other best friends (person b and c) are completely on my side and are actually kind of encouraging me to break up with him because he just won't listen to what i dont like.
So basically person a is making me feel selfish for wanting to break up with my boyfriend because I've lost feelings and I don't want to play with his emotions.