hi, just seeking a little bit of guidence :)
So this is all abt, my mother, more of the things she does, you need to know that right now I'm going into acting, film and things like that.
She (my mother) is usually the one organising all of the acting jobs and stuff, and i think she has an understanding that i dont like doing this, but continues to push me into it, like when i refuse or reject one of her ideas she always makes me feel so guilty about it, saying things like, 'i wish you were more grateful' and 'other people would be happier with this opportunities' or 'it's never enough hey?'
And at a point, i started thinking, maybe i am spoiled or entitled and started exploring my behaviour toward my actions, but every time i would feel she was pressuring me into things i didn't want to do, plain simple.
And she makes me feel really guilty about every time i say no, and she takes my siblings and i on these 'guilt trips' too, and maybe she's doing it unintentionally but it doesn't feel that way?
any words of advice, about confronting her without blocking up my feeling because of guilt?
from Lilah xx